December 9, 2009
Golf star Tiger Woods has been in the news daily after his early-morning Black Friday crash in November, which resulted in the revelation that shocked many: his affairs with numerous women. The story continues to get interesting but disgusting by the day, thanks to the money-hungry women who are providing the media with private information to keep their names in the news.
Jaimee Grubbs, one of Tiger Woods’ mistresses, is one of those women who seems to be enjoying the sudden minute of fame with constant media exposure, and it continues through private messages. Today, the New York Post obtained and published on its Web site text messages shared between Tiger and Jaimee, where Tiger randomly mentions Grammy Award-winning and multi-platinum rap group Bone Thugs-N-Harmony.
The text messages are shown below verbatim:
Tiger: Hey Sexy I can’t come out this week. Something came up family wise (July 20, 3:04 p.m.)
Jaimee: That’s okay I hope everything is fine … would have liked to see you
Tiger: We will make it happen
Jaimee: I drove out for the night to surprise a friend with a present for there birthday (July 26, 11: 22 p.m.)
Tiger: what kind of present your naked body
Jaimee: haha no a watch I slept alone
Tiger: alone with him that is
Jaimee: haha I wish
Jaimee: miss u (Sept. 27, 6:38 p.m.)
Tiger: now that’s hot so who is your new boy toy
Jaimee: no new boy toy … still running dry… been on 2 real dates in the pat 2 months 😦
Tiger: I need you
Jaimee: then get your tight ass over here and visit me! I need u
Tiger: I will wear you out soon
Jaimee: how soon? I got a new piercing
Tiger: really. Where
Jaimee: I just sent u a pic of it … is on my cheek below my eye … implanted a little diamond
Tiger: send it again. I didn’t pick up on that
Tiger: you just need some attention from me
Tiger: do you have a boy friend (8:45 p.m.)
Jaimee: I don’t even have someone I am dating … no … u can be my boyfriend 😉
Tiger: then I am
Jaimee: I wish
Tiger: quiet and secretively we will always be together
Tiger: when was the last time you got laid
Jaimee: if we hang out on a Sundway we can watch desperate houswives again haha (Sept. 30, 3:38 p.m.)
Tiger: oh god
Jaimee: take a break from watching boring old golf
Jaimee: I mean the amazing sport of golf 😉
Jaimee: [more than an hour later] babe I was kidding
Tiger: I know sexy
Jaimee: is it orange county time yet? (Oct. 1, 6:06 p.m.)
Tiger: oh stop 🙂
Jaimee: hahaha I know … but you canceled on me last time so the anticipation is killing me … im finding myself watching sports center … haha j/k it isn’t that bad
Tiger: its never been that bad
Jaimee: very true … I only watch football
Tiger: Figured you would say that. Big black guys.
Jaimee: u are my first, last and only black guy! U should feel special
Tiger: why do I not believe that?
Tiger: [later, in response to Jaimee’s mention of a date who was “full of himself”] you kinda like that for some reason which is weird why you decided on me.
Tiger: having an asian mother and a military father you cannot and will not ever be full of yourself
Jaimee: I have fun with u, you always make me smile and I am not afraid to be myself or say anything to u … the day I met u I thought u were going to kick me out a few times but for someone reason you didn’t and u have told me numerous times I talk to much but slowly as I get to know u iI think your absolutely amazing
Tiger: you are wrong I’m bone thugs in harmony
Jaimee: Something wrong babe?I was excited to sepnd time with u this week (Oct. 15, 6:40 p.m.)
Tiger: I will you Sunda night. Its the only night in which I am totally free but I have to leave at 530 Monday morning to drive up to the valley for an outing for one of my sponsors. See you at 8 pm on Sunday in newport
Tiger: don’t text me back till tomorrow morning. I have to many people around me right now
Tiger: send me something very naughty (Oct. 18, 3:40 p.m.)
Jaimee: some things are worth waiting for lol … besides im at work
Tiger: go to the bathroom and take it
Jaimee: haha ur too much
Jaimee: are u leaving me cause your wife is still in newport 😦 I am lonely now … i like falling asleep in your arms (Oct. 18, 11:38 p.m.)
Tiger: sorry baby I just can’t sleep. Its just a problem I have
Tiger: she is not here. They left this morning
Jaimee: well I appreciate you not wanting to wake me up but if y couldn’t sleep I would have rather sat up and talked to u more … find out why I keep falling more and more for u 😉
Tiger: Because I’m blasian 🙂
Tiger: I’m sorry babe. Im already home.
Jaimee: I’m putting my underwear back on … thats a no no … come take them off
Tiger: 🙂 you are too funny
Tiger: happy thanksgiving to you (Nov. 26, 11:16 a.m.)
Jaimee: u too love
The Bone Thugs-N-Harmony reference comes out of nowhere and can render a few interpretations, but two are logical: (1) because Bone is known for canceling shows and showing up late for events, perhaps his comment stems from that; or (2) because Bone is known for its rapid-fire rapping style, perhaps his comment stems from each member’s quickness. The latter seems more logical.
Nonetheless, with Bone’s new album, UNI-5: The World’s Enemy, slated to hit store shelves in March 2010, this unexpected line by Tiger is actually good promotion. In truth, Tiger manages to promote Bone in one line more efficiently than the group’s Brand Engine management team in 2009. It’s sad but true.
Tiger’s random Bone reference is interesting but irrelevant. What is more interesting are the full text messages and how they became public via Jaimee.
Tiger, for weeks, has been verbally attacked in the media for cheating on his wife and his sexual escapades with various women. His privacy has been violated, not only by the women who publicly show their faces for attention but by the information that they provide to the media – and the text herein shows that.
Thus far, Tiger has been linked to 11 women: (1) Rachel Uchitel, 34-year-old club hostess; (2) Jaimee Grubbs, 24-year-old reality show contestant and cocktail waitress; (3) Kalika Moquin, 27-year-old club manager in Las Vegas; (4) Holly Sampson, porn star; (5) Veronica Siwik-Daniels (aka Joslyn Jame), hardcore porn star; (6) Cori Rist, 31-year-old swimsuit model; (7) Jamie Jungers, 26-year-old former employee of Trashy Girls Lingerie; (8) Mindy Lawton, 33-year-old pancake housewaitress; (9) unidentified former cocktail waitress in Orlando, FL; (10) unidentified British reporter; (11) unidentified woman reported in a UK paper.
Yes, Tiger committed adultery, made wrong decisions, and behaved badly. Yes, he willingly cheated on his wife Elin Nordegren several times and disrespected himself, his spouse, and his family. Yes, Tiger’s transgressions were uncalled for and should not be supported or excused, for he acted stupidly – and dishonored his wife and marriage vow in the worst way. Consequently, he should be accountable for his actions and criticized heavily. No person should have any sympathy for what he’s going through, for he placed himself in that position and jeopardized the health of his wife and future earnings. However, these women should not be given any airtime to publicize their sadness while speaking on their relationships with Tiger. More important, they should not be treated as victims, because they are not. The true victims are Tiger’s wife and his children. The mistresses represent participants in the destruction of a marriage.
Any woman who knowingly sleeps with a married man should not be pampered and cuddled with cute comments of sorrow. Rather, they should be excoriated equally as the man for ruining a marriage and a family that will never be the same again.
For some odd reason, some women refuse to accept this simple ideology of equal blame but rather endorse a double standard: attack a husband who cheats on his wife (because “all men cheat” and “all men are dogs”), while holding back any contempt at the woman who participated in the affair – as if she’s absolved from her actions.
If Tiger’s infidelity causes people to label him a “dirty dog” and a “man-whore” for his actions, then his participating mistresses should also be labeled with similar offensive words.
These women, especially Jaimee, who decided to go public after Rachel’s rumored affair with Tiger, are nothing but slut-whores looking for quick fame and monetary stability through Tiger. These reported mistresses are trashy (e.g., some of their professions speak for themselves), uncultured, unethical, and slutty – and should be lambasted in the media equally as Tiger.
His already-damaged reputation should not be facilitated any longer by these rapaciously money-hungry women who are claiming to have private e-mails, voice mails, pictures, text messages, and the like. Most disturbing is that fact that some of these women are hiring lawyers to negotiate a monetary deal with Tiger’s legal team to keep quiet and preclude any information from coming out.
Unfortunately, damaging information has been released with more rapidly forthcoming to humiliate and embarrass Tiger even more. Reports claim that one of Tiger’s mistresses has already sold naked pictures of the golf star to Playgirl. According to Playgirl, it does have the alleged naked pictures of Tiger and plans to possibly release them, after confirming their authenticity. This type of scandalous action by this mistress represents greed at its finest and a woman who lacks character.
Fittingly, Tiger has become hated by many women the world over. Using Bone Thugs-N-Harmony’s forthcoming album title in this context, he seems to be the world’s enemy. If Tiger is being treated like the world’s enemy, the women that are seeking monetary compensation to remain silent, or decide to sell anything damaging involving Tiger for profit should also be treated as such for sleeping with a married man. They deserve no respect whatsoever.
In truth, these women are nothing more than gold diggers – not to mention pure refined slut-whores for knowingly sleeping with a married man and having the audacity to come out publicly to exploit his fame and richness.
Originally published December 9, 2009 via now-defunct Examiner.com